Mr.Ego

Is Ego Good Or Bad.....????

Many of us are in confusion whether to live  ego or leave ego.?

To be clear about that let us know what exactly an ego is......

One of the main causes of all evils and imblances in the society is Mr.ego. He is present everywhere irrespective of caste,creed,colour or sex. The friciton that occurs in our dealings with our fellow-beings and quarrels that have formed an inevitable part of our family lives are all due to Mr.Ego. If we observe keenly, we find that the clash is actually not between people, but not between egos. 

In fact  the egos is of two types:

• Ripe ego : Refined and reformed

• Unripe ego : Uncultured     

Even among the  members of  same family, we see a lot of behavioural differences. why? Because they all have different types of egos. Among them one may have a trained ego, another an untrained ego, yet another an ill-trained one

A person of trained ego thinks nobly, acts gently,  inspire for a sublime goal in life. Every body enjoys his/her company, as his/her conduct is amiable and pleasant. A person of trained ego believes that, "The most happy is one who most promotes the happiness of others."

One with untrained ego remains busy blowing their own trumpet and making much ado about nothing. Such a person is like an "empty vessel that makes much noise."

A man of an ill-trained damages the very structures of the family. with their distorted ego they  are curse to the society. Moreover this autocrat makes their home hell where people tremble the very sight of them.

Though ego is mischievous, we  cannot do without it. Ego necessary, for, it forms the most essential part of our individuality. Without the sense of  'I', there can be no individuality at all. Indeed, even that which we call self-confidence is nothing but ego in its refined an reinforced form.

So it is obvious that the training the ego is paramount importance if we wish to have peace and concord in the society. The elite of the society should come forward to highlight the significance of politeness,modesty,courtesy,compassion etc., which are the hallmark of a well-trained and sublimed ego.

It is almost impossible even for great people to train and sublimate the egos of grown-up individuals. It is perhaps easier to tame tigers,elephants and lion, but not men of stubborn ego! However, as we have already seen, wihtout training ego, we can never expect to have a peaceful soceity; no, not even a happy home!

So, what is the way out? Is there no solution? Well, we need not despair. We may not be able to bend a tree , but we can certainly bend a young plant! So, we should  direct al lattention towards our youngsters. Here comes the vital role of parents.

The noble parents chastise the ego of their youngsters not merely by sermonizing but by the glowing examples of their own cultured dealings and despositions. Because they know the significance of the saying 'examples is better than precept.' In fact, example is not only an effective way of training the youth, but it is the only way!

So be a person with well-trained ego, Say:
"Dear ego........
I am Strong.....
I control You......
I will win"

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