Sunday, 19 July 2015

Hooke's Law

Hooke's law:

The strain (deformation) of an elastic object or material is proportional to the stress applied to it.

Let's apply the same Law to Eternal things, Natural resources like,earth,water,air.....

 I hope everyone enjoys to make voyage (A course of travel by water to distant place), playing at sea-shores . Naturally an Ocean or a sea looks calm,peace and dances like an young lady. A part from its Aesthetic feature they also gives us an enormous minerals, nutritious sea food and many more. But imagine the disasters made by Tsunami when they loose their patience. Hence it is proved that the beautiful oceans and sea too have a limit like an elastic material which has an elastic limit.

Now apply the same law to our mother earth , it gives many minerals, it gives life to tress,animals, human-beings etc,.  it bears all the stress applied by every living and non-living thing. But imagine the scene of an earth quake, thus the earth which is a synonym for patience also has its limit.

It is very often to see young couples of opposite gender hand in hand, taking stroll drenching head to toe enjoying cool breeze. Romance in cool breeze has gigantic pull to be together. It is obvious to everyone that living beings are alive because of it (air). But it too has its limit, when it looses its calmness(cyclones and tornadoes) and purity(pollution) there won't be any life on this earth.


Like wise every thing in this world has its limit.


Too much Sweet leads to Sugar

To much Spicy leads to Ulcer

Too much Salt leads to B.P.

Too much Smartness leads to Foolishness

Too much Confidence leads to Failure

Too much Ego leads to Loneliness

Too much smoking lead to lung cancer

Too much alcohol leads to liver cancer

Too much donation made Bali Chaktravarthy to die.........



So don't do anything Too Much.....

Hence Hooke's Law is proved for both Elastic materials and Eternal materials......


As always, thanks for reading......!!!!

Stay optimistics 24x7.......!!!!!!

Sunday, 21 June 2015

Mr.Ego

Is Ego Good Or Bad.....????

Many of us are in confusion whether to live  ego or leave ego.?
To be clear about that let us know what exactly an ego is......

One of the main causes of all evils and imblances in the society is Mr.ego. He is present everywhere irrespective of caste,creed,colour or sex. The friciton that occurs in our dealings with our fellow-beings and quarrels that have formed an inevitable part of our family lives are all due to Mr.Ego. If we observe keenly, we find that the clash is actually not between people, but not between egos. 

In fact  the egos is of two types:

  • Ripe ego : Refined and reformed

  • Unripe ego : Uncultured     

Even among the  members of  same family, we see a lot of behavioural differences. why? Because they all have different types of egos. Among them one may have a trained ego, another an untrained ego, yet another an ill-trained one

A person of trained ego thinks nobly, acts gently,  inspire for a sublime goal in life. Every body enjoys his/her company, as his/her conduct is amiable and pleasant. A person of trained ego believes that, "The most happy is one who most promotes the happiness of others."

One with untrained ego remains busy blowing their own trumpet and making much ado about nothing. Such a person is like an "empty vessel that makes much noise."

A man of an ill-trained damages the very structures of the family. with their distorted ego they  are curse to the society. Moreover this autocrat makes their home hell where people tremble the very sight of them.

Though ego is mischievous, we  cannot do without it. Ego necessary, for, it forms the most essential part of our individuality. Without the sense of  'I', there can be no individuality at all. Indeed, even that which we call self-confidence is nothing but ego in its refined an reinforced form.

So it is obvious that the training the ego is paramount importance if we wish to have peace and concord in the society. The elite of the society should come forward to highlight the significance of politeness,modesty,courtesy,compassion etc., which are the hallmark of a well-trained and sublimed ego.

It is almost impossible even for great people to train and sublimate the egos of grown-up individuals. It is perhaps easier to tame tigers,elephants and lion, but not men of stubborn ego! However, as we have already seen, wihtout training ego, we can never expect to have a peaceful soceity; no, not even a happy home!

So, what is the way out? Is there no solution? Well, we need not despair. We may not be able to bend a tree , but we can certainly bend a young plant! So, we should  direct al lattention towards our youngsters. Here comes the vital role of parents.

The noble parents chastise the ego of their youngsters not merely by sermonizing but by the glowing examples of their own cultured dealings and despositions. Because they know the significance of the saying 'examples is better than precept.' In fact, example is not only an effective way of training the youth, but it is the only way!

So be a person with well-trained ego, Say:
"Dear ego........
I am Strong.....
I control You......
I will win"

As always, thanks for reading......!!!!

Stay optimistics 24x7.......!!!!!!



Saturday, 6 June 2015

GOAL SETTING...

What is a goal?

A with dream with a date is a goal.

Let me illustrate:
For an instance assume that you are playing cricket in ground where there is no boundary rope, and you hit a massive shot so that ball fell at long distance say 120+ meters away.
Now is that six? Four? Caught..??? Can’t say until there is a boundary, right?

In the same way, say your dream is to build a beautiful house, but when? Within a year? After two years? Six years?  Sixty years?  Or after you death?

Hence it is clear that, a goal is that which is achieved within a stipulated time.
What is a dream? It is not which you see when you are sleep, a dream that which makes you sleeps less.

Why dream and goal..??
n  Suffer less from stress and anxiety
n  Concentrate better
n  Show more self-confidence
n  Perform better
n  Are happier

Power of a dream:  Martin Luther King Jr, an American Baptist minister, activist, humanitarian, and leader in the African-American Civil Rights Movement in his speech said that
“I have dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: ‘we hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equally’ “
 And now today Barack Hussein Obama II -a negro- is the 44th and current President of the United States.






 How to set a goal..??


What’s important to remember about setting goals is the correct F.R.A.M.E. of mind.

n  Fantasize - Dream your wildest dreams and make sure that your goals match your values.
Ask yourself: what do you want to be doing in 1 year? 5 years? What kind of person do I want to be?

n  Reality - Fantasies can become reality, depending on how hard you are willing to work for them.

n  Aim - Define your goal(s) by striking a balance between Fantasy and Reality; set a high but realistic goal.

n  Method – Be truthful to yourself by narrowing your choices or goals to the ones you really intend to accomplish.  Don’t be afraid to ask for help.

n  Evaluation - Process the results, but don’t make it the last step; evaluation should be on going


Qualities of Effective Goals S.M.A.R.T.:

Ø SPECIFIC: The Goal should be SPECIFIC enough so that we know exactly for what we are striving.

Ø MEASURABLE: A goal must be MEASURABLE. It should have concrete facts. You should be able to answer very specifically, when and how you will know you attained your goal.

Ø ACTION-ORIENTED: Declaring positive activity that will produce results.  

Ø REALISTIC: Challenging yourself is an important part of goal setting. You need to be realistic
EX: Your goal should not be, becoming a doctor being an engineering graduate

Ø TANGIBLE: A goal should be concrete and not vague.

Now the deal is how to achieve your goal….??

ü Identify possible strategies or objectives to reach each goal: Make a list of what you feel are the best and most effective ways of reaching the goals you have already identified.


ü Select the best strategies: Now that you have made a list of several ways to achieve your goal, recognize which of these strategies will work best for you.

ü Outline specific plans to accomplish each strategy: Once you have narrowed down your strategy list, you can begin to make very detailed and specific plans to accomplish each strategy and ultimately reach your goal.

ü Write your goals: Write your goal everywhere in your bedroom, kitchen, dining hall, rest room where ever you go frequently, and an unwritten goal is just a wish.

Commitment: Commitment creates more accountability and is what sets us on direct course to reach our goals. It may create costly negative consequences upon failure to attain a goal.

Why Goals Fail…….???
·       The goal was not written down.
·       Rewards for achieving the goals were not given.
·       The goal was unrealistic or not specific enough.
·       The goal is not really believable or little commitment exists.
·       Keep changing or switching goals with the weather
·       The person who set the goal has not told anyone else for added accountability, help and support.
·       The goal was not incorporated into a realistic plan that includes measurements, timelines and resources.
“Dream high, not dreaming high is a sin”, dreaming high is not a sin but not making an effort to achieve is.


As always, thanks for reading…..!!!!!!

Thursday, 28 May 2015

LAW OF ACTION (WORK)


For Every Pain There Is An Equal And Opposite Gain:



Are you  bored of hearing Newtons third law right from  your school days...???

Come on let's  know about  a similar law which states that     
Law of action ======>GAIN =-[PAIN]

i.e, The more you take the pain the more you gain.

Newtons Law ======> Ma = -[Ma]
         ------->F(action) = F(Reaction)


So it is obvious that Until there is no force of Action there won't be any Reaction -Object remains in the rest position. And the fact is  "Rest Leads To Rust."

(Hey.....!!!! One cannot even get a child only by getting married- should sweat....!!!)

Let's go through a small coversation between an Idol and Stone which rests at the feet of idol, which prove the     Law of Action:

Stone:  (Dissappointingly)Dear God! Could you make me onething clear..??

Idol: Ha Sure... what made you dissappoint?

Stone: We both had come from same place, strictly speaking from the same rock even, but why people prays you,offers gifts,money,gold.... what not..?, where as the same people hurts me alot by kicking me,stumping me with theirs feet. what make the difference?

Idol: Dear..!!!! Did you remember the day the sculptor visited us?

Stone: I did remember, "how  can we  forget that day"?

Idol: That day the sculptor beat me harshly with his chisel and hammer,peirced me, but still I took that   incredible pain. when I was screaming like anything you were hiding at a corner to escape from the site of that sculpture.
That  day  beared the enormous pain and have been getting praised (prayed) everyday,
whereas you were scared of that pain and have been getting bashed everyday.

Hence  it is obvious that Hard work will be paidwhere as the "Laziness Lates the Train of Success to reach you platform". 

Now, Ask Yourselves which is your character, a Stone..? or an Idol..?

Use your time constructively - Do somethig, so that by the end of the day you should realise that "Today I did this/that."

Hey..!!! Still reading this...........?? Go and start doing something yaarr.........!!!!!!!!!

As Always, Thanks for Reading........!!!!






Sunday, 17 May 2015

Fail harder

Want to become a successful…..??? Then learn to get failed….


The greatest secret to success is learning how to “Fail.” It would even be fair to say unless one fail harder they cannot be hungrier and determined to achieve their success.

In fact one cannot enjoy their success unless they fail, yes its true let me illustrate how: Until one gets failed is like
A child fish asking her mother to show how water looks like..?

Most of the people who are on top today were not as there are today. More often than not, those who history best remembers were faced with numerous obstacles that forced them to work harder and show more determination than others. When you feel down about your failures in school, in college or in a career, keep these famous people in your mind.

Take Risks:
Always be ready to take calculated risks, past reveals that the people who have dare to take risks are the creators of history. Let’s look at some great personalities.

  • ·        Nicolas Copernicus- A Polish astronomer who put forth the theory that the Sun is at rest near the center of the Universe was prisoned by religious head but he did not give up.
  • ·        Charles Darwin- who stated that human beings evolved from apes had many opponents at his times but proved to be true later. If he had feared of those criticisms we would have lost the great Darwinism theory.
  • ·        Thomas Edison- was both hearing impaired and fidgety. He only lasted three months in school where his teachers said he was "too stupid to learn anything." He eventually was home schooled by his mom. In talking about his invention of the light bulb, he said:

 I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that do not work.”

Come on let’s know few Famously Successful People from various fields Who Failed at First………….


Business Gurus

These businessmen are today known around the world, but their stories show, they weren’t always smooth.

"I used to work in petrol pump"
- DHIRUBHAI AMBANI

1. Walt Disney: The creator of the global Disney Empire of film studios, theme parks, and consumer merchandise was fired from an early job at the Kansas City Star Newspaper because he was “lacked imagination and had no good ideas.” In 1922 he launched a Kansas-based company called Laugh-O-Gram with a mission to produce cartoons and short advertising films. One year later, in 1923, the business went broke. He didn’t give up, though. He moved from Kansas to Hollywood to begin another venture, and The Walt Disney Company was born.

2. Bill Gates: The famous co-founder and chairman of Microsoft dropped out of Harvard to set up a business called Traf-O-Data. The partnership between Bill Gates, Paul Allen, and Paul Gilbert was based on a good idea to read data from roadway traffic counters and create automated reports on traffic flows. But the business model was flawed and the company had few customers and resulted in losses from 1974 to 1980 before it was closed. But Bill and his partner Paul Allen put the lessons they’d learned to good use when they created Microsoft.

3. Steve Jobs: was fired from Apple, joining a long list of brilliant leaders who have been removed from the companies they founded. He returned several years later to turn Apple into one of the most successful technology and consumer organizations in the world.

 4. Henry Ford: While Ford is today known for his innovative assembly line and American-made cars, he wasn’t an instant success. In fact, his early businesses failed and left him broke five time before he founded the successful Ford Motor Company.

5. Soichiro Honda: The billion-dollar business that is Honda began with a series of failures and fortunate turns of luck. Honda was turned down by Toyota Motor Corporation for a job after interviewing for a job as an engineer, leaving him jobless for quite some time. He started making scooters of his own at home, and spurred on by his neighbors, finally started his own business.

Scientists and Thinkers
These people are often regarded as some of the greatest minds of our century, but they often had to face great obstacles.

"I was rejected in the interview of PILOT"
- ABDUL KALAM

6. Albert Einstein: Most of us take Einstein’s name as synonymous with genius, but he didn’t always show such promise. Einstein did not speak until he was four and did not read until he was seven, causing his teachers and parents to think he was mentally handicapped, slow and anti-social. Eventually, he was expelled from school and was refused admittance to the Zurich Polytechnic School. It might have taken him a bit longer, but most people would agree that he caught on pretty well in the end, winning the Nobel Prize and changing the face of modern physics.

7. Isaac Newton: Newton was undoubtedly a genius when it came to math, but he had some failings early on. He never did particularly well in school and when put in charge of running the family farm, he failed miserably, so poorly in fact that an uncle took charge and sent him off to Cambridge where he finally blossomed into the scholar we know today.

8. Socrates: Despite leaving no written records behind, Socrates is regarded as one of the greatest philosophers of the Classical era. Because of his new ideas, in his own time he was called “an immoral corrupter of youth” and was sentenced to death. Socrates didn’t let this stop him and kept right on, teaching up until he was forced to poison himself.


Public Figures

From politicians to talk show hosts, these figures had a few failures before they came out on top.

Latest miracle: A chaiwala becoming prime minister of India.

9. Winston Churchill: This Nobel Prize-winning, twice-elected Prime Minster of the United Kingdom wasn’t always as well regarded as he is today. Churchill struggled in school and failed the sixth grade. After school he faced many years of political failures, as he was defeated in every election for public office until he finally became the Prime Minister at the ripe old age of 62.

10. Abraham Lincoln: While today he is remembered as one of the greatest leaders of our nation, Lincoln’s life wasn’t so easy. In his youth he went to war a captain and returned a private (if you’re not familiar with military ranks, just know that private is as low as it goes.) Lincoln didn’t stop failing there, however. He started numerous failed business and was defeated in numerous runs he made for public office.
In 1831, Abraham Lincoln failed in business.
In 1832, Abraham Lincoln was defeated for state legislator.
In 1833, Abraham Lincoln tried a new business, and failed.
In 1835, Abraham Lincoln’s fiancée died.
In 1836, Abraham Lincoln had a nervous breakdown.
In 1843, Abraham Lincoln ran for congress and was defeated.
In 1848, Lincoln ran again, and was defeated. Again.
In 1855, Lincoln ran for the Senate, and lost.
In 1856, Lincoln ran for Vice President, and lost.
In 1859, Lincoln ran again for the Senate. He was defeated.
Then, in 1860, Abraham Lincoln was elected President of the United States.
What matters most is not how many times you fail, but that you never stop trying.

Movies:
These familiar faces from the big screen, saw their fair share of rejection and failure before they made it big.

"At the age of 30, I was a bus conductor"
-RAJNI KANT


"I slept on benches everyday & borrowed 20Rs/- from friend to travel to film city"
- Sharukh khan


"I was rejected for the job in ALL INDIA RADIO because of my heavy voice"
- AMITABH BACCHAN


11. Charlie Chaplin: It’s hard to imagine film without the iconic Charlie Chaplin, but his act was initially rejected by Hollywood studio chiefs because they felt it was a little too nonsensical to ever sell.
15. Lucille Ball: During her career, Ball had thirteen Emmy nominations and four wins, also earning the Lifetime Achievement Award from the Kennedy Center Honors. Before starring in I Love Lucy, Ball was widely regarded as a failed actress and a B movie star. Even her drama instructors didn’t feel she could make it, telling her to try another profession. She, of course, proved them all wrong.

Athletes
While some athletes rocket to fame, others endure a path fraught with a little more adversity, like those listed here.

"I failed in 8th standard"
-
SACHIN TENDULKAR

12. Michael Jordan: Most people wouldn’t believe that a man often lauded as the best basketball player of all time was actually cut from his high school basketball team. Luckily, Jordan didn’t let this setback stop him from playing the game and he has stated, “I have missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I have lost almost 300 games. On 26 occasions I have been entrusted to take the game winning shot, and I missed. I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”

13.Tom Landry:  As the coach of the Dallas Cowboys, Landry brought the team two Super Bowl victories, five NFC Championship victories and holds the records for the record for the most career wins. He also has the distinction of having one of the worst first seasons on record (winning no games) and winning five or fewer over the next four seasons.

The point here is simple. When you are reluctant to take risk implies your life is already in big risk.

So friends, leave your comfort zone and think out of box.

Stay positive 24x7…..!!!!!!

Always, thanks for reading........